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[ Thursday, November 19, 2015 ]
OTK Straddle Spanking
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The use of the hairbrush for a severe punishment spanking
As a deviant that really loves to spank, I have been blessed over the years to really pursue all of my spanking fantasies. Most people think that this takes place while I am working, but that is not really what fuels my fantasies. For me, I do not find what I seek from spanking paid models or play parties, as rarely in those situations am I spanking someone who really deserves it, which is the most important factor for me. Yes, there have been a few scenes that I have done over the years, for my sites, in which real discipline was actually taking place (the real discipline with Michael Masterson scenes, as well as several Brandi scenes, and recently a couple scenes with Syrena), but that is not the norm for what I do at work.
My fantasies, as they have always existed in my head, have been explored in the comfort of my own home, without any camera being turned on. There have been dozens and dozens of private discipline sessions in which someone has sought me out, traveled to my location, for a well-deserved punishment. In these cases the discipline is very real, as are the offenses, but it is a little more difficult in that they had to travel for me for their punishment, leading to most communication being via email. Of these types of relationships, the ones that have been most fulfilling to me were people who at least lived locally. This allowed for the spanking to take place as soon as possible after it was required.
At the very top, as far as fulfilling spanking fantasies, have been relationships in which domestic discipline was involved. As I have stated too many times, we are discussing domestic discipline relationships in which the person being punished by me, had a desire to be spanked. In most cases, these relationships grew out of someone that was already reporting to me for private discipline. I have never really assumed the “daddy” role, as that is not really my thing, however, these types of relationships do lend themselves greatly to a daddy/daughter sort of relationship.
While no one has ever been required, or even allowed, to call me daddy, the relationship tends to fit quite nicely into a strict father with an older teen daughter still living at home, as the requirements for both relationships are quite similar. For a women living under my roof, that wants to have discipline in her life, I will have similar expectations. I will want the very best for her and will expect her to work hard at anything and everything she does. There will be clearly defined rules that will result in discipline if broken. There will be chores that help in the running of the household. She is required to live her life in a safe and healthy manner. Education, on any level is something very important and is to be taken very seriously, even if it is just finding the time each day to read a little. Exercise and fitness are very important and need to play a major role in her life, and so on. As you can see, these are the same requirements that any older teen still living at home could possibly be faced with.
Take all of those and factor in basic no no’s in life such as drinking and driving, texting and driving, staying out too late, getting too drunk, and things a little less severe such as not calling when late, procrastination issues, not picking up after herself, etc., and you have a pretty good list that allows for fairly frequent spanking, without there being any role playing required. The roles are indeed quite real; there is nothing fake about any of it. Yes, it might be a little odd to some, that legal adults have chosen a lifestyle in which a man can spank a woman whenever the moment requires it, but there is a lot of good that can come from all of it.
So this leads me, in a very roundabout way, to the topic for today, and that is choice of spanking implements, and the importance of having that one implement that is really reserved for the worst case punishment. In a relationship such as this, especially when she does have a desire to be spanked, a spanking is going to happen fairly often. The rules are purposely rigid to make sure that anything but her very best behavior will result in a spanking. This is not to say that I do not apply each and every spanking with the goal of eliminating such behavior, but there has to be a balance. I am not going to beat her poor bottom black and blue, for leaving her dirty clothes on the floor after being asked not to. She is going to get a spanking, a very memorable spanking that will lead to tears, but not every spanking she receives is going to be the most severe of her life. However, I do need to make sure that every spanking is not one that she enjoys and would not want repeated anytime soon.
With fairly frequent spanking as the norm, especially with the current naughty girl in my life, I tend to have go to implements that are used most often. It should come as no surprise if you have watched my videos or read here at all, that the belt and paddle are my two favorites. I make it a point that any belt I put on in the morning is one that will be effective for discipline, so by default, that is always a choice when the moment calls for it. I also think that the belt carries a certain stigma to it, and as many young ladies grew up feeling it, it will always have a special meaning. I like that a belt, especially the ones I choose to wear, can be used effectively over clothing or on the bare. I also like the fact, being that I often like to administer discipline on the spot, is that we can be out and about and I always have an implement with me. I have been forced to be creative at times, but for just about any occasion, I can find that quick and private little spot to wear her bottom out when needed.
I think my obsession with the paddle is as simple as growing up in a school system in which anyone, at any given time, could be told to bend over for a paddling. Most corporal punishment is far more private, so the knowledge, and occasional proximity to a school paddling, forever etched the paddle into my mind with spanking. The day that I rented my first real house, before we were even unpacked, I was in the garage making my first paddle ever, as I now had a place to do so privately. My personal paddle collection, not counting work paddles, is in excess of 50 different wooden paddles. But true to my roots, with as many choices that I have, the school type paddles see the most use.
The paddle really is the ultimate punishment tool. It works in every single situation in which corporal punishment is required. It is the great equalizer of spanking implements in that it is effective over any variation of clothing. She could be wearing pj’s, a work skirt with pantyhose, or tight jeans and full underwear…it does not matter. With the proper paddle selection, I can teach a very real and very immediate lesson with a good paddle. Even better, I can get my point across with just a few swats. A small offense, fine, 6 swats with a paddle over her clothes. A severe offense, 20 on the bare bottom is more than enough to leave her bruised and sore. If she requires a quick reminder as we head out the door, there does not need to be some big production, clothing removed, we can just walk into the bedroom, and in less than 30 seconds she is walking tearfully to the car.
Even though I can use a paddle and turn it into the most severe punishment, there still has to be that one implement, the one that is never used, unless she is about to be taught the lesson of her life. I find it important to always be able to take discipline to the next level when required. This is why pretty much every spanking I give is right around 80%. If she is getting all wiggly and won’t stay in position, she needs to know that I can turn it up a notch if needed. Well the same holds true with the paddle. She knows it hurts, she knows it can be the worst thing ever, but she needs to know there is a different implement and a different level that I will go to if her behavior requires it. It is this threat, and fear, that helps stop the dangerous behaviors that involve her own, or someone else’s safety.
In my home, this implement has always been a heavy wooden hairbrush. I am not taking about a brush from Target, with plastic backing, or some thin little crappy wood. I am talking about a heavy wooden hairbrush at least an inch thick. This is an implement that is so very capable of making a permanent change in behavior. Yes, I do indeed have paddles that are an inch thick, that could probably produce the same results, but this is my chosen implement for those times when such a lesson is really needed. As my home is not a spanking studio, and I try and keep it as vanilla as possible, there are not just implements lying around. But just like a belt, a hairbrush is a very common thing to see in someone’s home. My favorite hairbrush, meaning the one that sucks the most, is always sitting out in plain view in the bedroom or bathroom. This allows her a daily reminder, even as she just brushes her teeth, that this is an option depending on her behavior. I guarantee that she can recall with vivid detail each and every time she has felt it on her bottom. When it is used, it is used with great intensity. There can never be that time, in which she was spanked with the brush, when it was not “that bad”. I need that brush to conjure up fear, pain, and remorse every time she even glances at it.
There are a few reasons why the hairbrush is so feared on our home. The first is the manner in which I use it. Even with a severe paddling, the overall event may only consist of 20-30 swats, as that is more than enough to make my point. But with a hairbrush, I treat it basically the way I do a handspanking, a punishment that is defined by minutes, not swats. I prefer to administer it otk, as this allows me to help keep her in position. Yes, I am big on people assisting in their punishment by cooperating and holding still, but with the brush, I know that might not be fully possible. With a paddle, the swats are generally spaced out a little bit, but with the brush I treat it just like a handspanking and spank as fast as I can while still creating the amount of intensity that is required. While thicker than a typical paddle, it has a much smaller striking surface, but this is used to my benefit. With a paddle, hard swats need to be closely monitored to assure that I am avoiding the tailbone. This leads to pretty much all swats hitting in generally the same area. Also with a school paddle, due to its size, I do not spank cheek to cheek, so this leads to her right cheek getting punished more than the left. But with a brush, and knowledge of exactly where her tailbone is, I am free to work a much larger portion of her bottom.
Each swat on the bare bottom, with my heavy hairbrush, leaves a large bull’s eye bruise. With a paddle I am only able to bruise part of her bottom, but with the brush, I can work everywhere but where her tailbone sits. I am very big on leaving a “visual indicator” on someone’s bottom so they can not only feel the results of their behavior, but they can also see it. With a brush, I can literally turn her entire bottom black and blue. The smaller striking surface also allows me to really focus the spanking on the areas that I know she will be feeling it the most. There is no school paddle that allows me to really work the inside portion of the bottom of her butt cheek. With a brush, I can use one hand to gentle spread her cheeks, and make sure that the inner area, as close as I can safely get to her vagina, receives the attention that it requires.
This also allows me to really work the “sit spot” in a manner that I cannot accomplish with any other implement. As I stated before, a paddling can really take care of this area, but it tends to not be balanced. While I will cover as wide an area as I safely can with a brush, she can count on the part of her bottom that touches when she sits to be visited far more frequently. While I may use 10-12 swats on each pass to take care of just one butt cheek, I will always put at least that many swats on a single spot, on that same pass. Remember, this is a “holy shit” sort of offense and I am looking for results. With the hairbrush, the goal really is for her not to be able to sit the next day, and I assure you, it is possible.
The entire process will last up to five minutes and she will be in tears from the very first swat. Nothing really takes someone’s breath away like a full force hairbrush stroke on the bare bottom. She will kick, squirm, and wiggle for the first minute or so, but her body will eventually help her cope. Anything after that first minute is more for the next few days, as she will slowly be able to handle the intensity of the brush. But just because she is no longer fighting it, and it does not seem to be having the same effect, it does not mean I stop. I try to be quite meticulous in my coverage, as I really do want her to see what her behavior caused. While it will appear as several hundred little bull’s eyes, it will eventually lead to one very bruised bottom that will sort of merge together over time. I use the time when her endorphins are really kicking to make sure that the entire lower portion of her bottom is as sore as I can possibly get it. One must be very careful when going below the bottom, but I have found that the first couple of inches of her upper thighs, when also punished, tends to help with the long term learning.
When it is all said and done, the results are generally a very worn out and tired young lady who has exhausted herself mentally and physically. Her bottom will be pretty much numb for a little while; it is just hard to avoid that. But we both know from experience that this will not be the case for very long, and that soon, the real punishment will begin. Being a spanko, once she has calmed herself down, she always goes to look at her bottom in the mirror. On one such occasion, she had pulled the full length mirror off the wall and was sort of squatting over it, pressing on her bottom which was completely swollen and hard to the touch everywhere. She knows that she will only “enjoy” it for less than an hour, because then the reality sets in. The reality that eventually sets in is the fact that her bottom is sorer than most people can actually imagine.
The next morning is pretty much always the worst, and in my experience it can go one of two ways. The first option, the preferred option, is she is feeling remorseful and very sorry for her actions. There is typically a sense of relief, in that if a punishment of this intensity was required, then chances are there was some serious tension between us, as well as something that she was feeling extremely bad or guilty about. Knowing her actions were leading up to this spanking, there is also much relief that it is over and behind us. Yes, she is incredibly sore, very hesitant to even try and sit down, so clearly learning is still taking place. But this also leads to a bit of a bonding process, with me having had the strength and the courage to give her the spanking that she had earned, choosing to give her everything that she needed and not stopping regardless of how much it hurt and how bruised her bottom was becoming. While all is certainly forgiven, this is not to say that I slack on the rules in any way just because she can’t sit down. It is her behavior that decides when her next spanking is, not mine. But when things go this way, the way they should, I tend to allow her to care for her bottom is any manner that she chooses, meaning, if she chooses to stand for breakfast, that is her decision and one I can respect. I do not go out of my way to provide additional discomfort and just allow the current soreness to be the consequence.
But there are indeed those times in which a young lady does not fully learn from such and experience and chooses to handle it a different way. This way would involve a lot of bitching, moaning, and carrying on about how sore she is. This is not remorse or even ownership of her punishment, it is the exact opposite, and I have very little tolerance for such things. I took the time to help her, with something so completely wrong and horrible, a behavior that could possibly lead to arrest, or injury, and went out of my way to make sure that she was punished in such a way to discourage it from ever happening again, and now she is giving me attitude because she can’t really sit down? What part of her not being able to sit down is my fault? I did not spank her for fun, or because I was horny, or even because I am mean, I spanked her, long and hard with my hairbrush, to effect change. Being bitter, and sarcastic, are not the signs of someone who has learned a lesson. It demonstrates behavior that further requires my attention.
I wrote recently about the bike seat discipline that I chose one day after such a punishment, and it was exactly that behavior, immediately following the spanking, and again the next morning that led to this. I can be quite forgiving of someone who learned their lesson and chose to start fresh the next day, but I can be a literal pain in the ass when a different attitude emerges. So if she did not learn her lesson, we will capitalize on the previous spanking, and make sure the lessons continues. A girl with an attitude like that can count on spending a lot of time sitting the next day or two. She can also count on there being a piece of wood on any padded furniture that she chooses to sit on. She may indeed find herself on a bike seat or in corner time on a wooden stool, with her feet elevated to put all of the pressure on her bottom. Or, she may find herself grabbing her ankles for a session with my belt, like the one time these words were spoken, “easy for you to say when your ass is not fucking sore”. You will be amazed at the effectiveness of the belt on a bottom in that state, the very next day. But she needed a very clear reminder that I was not the one that “made her ass so fucking sore”, it was only her that was responsible.
The point I am really trying to make with this post is that even in a spanking relationship, in which severe spanking tends to be pretty close to the norm, there has to be a next level. As the level of bad behavior increases, so does the resulting punishment. There may have been a particular spanking that was a 10 on the pain scale, well guess what, today we find what 12 feels like, because as long as her behavior requires it, I will do what is necessary to effect the necessary change.
All images and animations come from very real hairbrush spankings that I have personally administered in the member’s area of Realspankings.com
[ Wednesday, November 04, 2015 ]
Using anticipation to increase the effectiveness of a punishment spanking.
Research has clearly demonstrated that a punishment is most effective when it is applied as soon as possible after the infraction. While I do know that this in indeed the case, I often like to delay the actual spanking once a transgression has taken place. I do believe in addressing the behavior the moment it takes place, but I feel that a spanking can often be made more effective by delaying it. For today’s blog post I will go through what I feel to be the most effective ways to use anticipation to enhance the overall effectiveness of a spanking.
A method I often use, and one that is quite popular with parents that utilize corporal punishment, is to send the offender to another location to wait for her punishment. She is not told how long she will have to wait, and in many cases, she is not even told what she will be spanked with. As she sits in the bedroom waiting, this really allows her imagination to get the best of her. As much as she might try to distract herself, her mind is always brought back to the fact that she is about to have her bottom blistered. This adds a lot of overall stress to the event, which I see as a positive thing. We want all aspects of a disciplinary spanking to be as memorable as possible, so any tool that I can use to make the entire experience undesirable, I will put into action.
As she is sitting there, she is able to run 100’s of scenarios through her head, as well as reflect on previous spankings she has endured and contrast them to what she is in trouble for this time. She is forced to consider every implement that I own, as she has no idea what is about to be used on her. She might try and convince herself that it will not be that bad this time, while just seconds later the thought of the last time the hairbrush was used on pops into her head. This gives her time to not only reflect on the punishment she is about to receive, but to revisit many past punishments in her head. Even for those that enjoy spankings on some level, the anticipation can often be as bad as the punishment itself.
I like to capitalize on the stress, fear, and anticipation that she is feeling at the moment as much as possible. For anyone, as a child, teen, or adult, that has ever experienced this moment of anticipation, there is a particular moment that really defines this whole experience, and that is often footsteps headed in your direction, or the sound of the knob turning on the door. It can best be compared to the moment that you look in your rear-view mirror and see a cop with light on behind you. It gives you that rush of adrenaline that sweeps through your body, and instantly increases your heart rate. It is at this moment that the stress levels go through the roof, as you know the moment that you have been dreading for at least several minutes is finally about to happen. In my home, there is no carpet, with hardwood floors throughout so the sounds of footsteps carry very well. When I have a young lady sitting on my bed waiting for her punishment, I make a point of getting up and walking in that general direction every five to ten minutes. This allows her to experience that “oh shit” moment at least a few times before her punishment actually begins. Even better, I will walk all the way to the bedroom, and turn the knob on the door, before going back to whatever I was doing, and allowing her more time to consider her behavior.
This same scenario can be further enhanced by adding additional elements to the process. One that I find is very effective, especially if she is in a considerable amount of trouble, is to have her get the implement that is to be used on her, and have her hold it while she waits. This is not quite as effective for lesser punishments utilizing a lighter implement, in which case I would rather have her guessing what is to be used, so she can picture the worst. But if I am going to paddle her bottom with a heavy wooden school paddle, or use a hairbrush, I will probably send her to wait with it in her hand. With the implement in hand she is better able to visualize and imagine just how very bad it will be. We have added a tactile element to the equation and she can actually touch and feel the implement. She will not only be able to see the implement that is going to be used, but to feel its weight. Knowing that she is going to be paddled is one thing, but holding the actual implement really allows her to contemplate exactly how it is going to feel, and more importantly, the long term effects of such a heavy implement.
Another element that can be used when a young lady is sent to her room to wait for her spanking is varying degrees of nudity. This can be as simple as her being told to sit with her pants and panties at her ankles, all the way to her being fully nude. Even in the privacy of the home, for many people, having some or all of their clothing removed adds a feeling of vulnerability. This is supposed to be a real punishment so I have no problem in doing whatever I can to make the overall experience as bad as possible. Beyond just the physical pain, if I can play on emotions such as fear, apprehension, embarrassment, stress, and vulnerability, I will do it every time. I am trying to create an overall experience that will decrease the likelihood of the behavior ever being repeated and will put everything into play that I think will help. It is one thing to be in trouble and to be told to bend over for your paddling, it is a far different experience to be told to strip naked, grab the paddle, and go wait in your room until I am good and ready to bruise your bottom.
Something else that I use quite often is to have her assume the position that she is going to be punished in, and then just have to wait. Typically she will not be required to hold a position as long as I would make her wait in the bedroom, but there is no reason, depending on the position, that she cannot wait five to fifteen minutes for her spanking to start. On many occasions I have required a naughty young lady to drop her pants and panties, right there in the middle of the living room, and grab her ankles for a spanking, only to then finish watching whatever show that happens to be on TV, or at least wait for a commercial break. This not only adds a bit of a physical stress to the overall punishment, but once again leads to feelings of embarrassment and vulnerability. It also helps her completely visualize exactly what is going to happen. Just as with the footsteps down the hall, every time the program goes to a commercial break, her body goes through that “oh shit” moment as she considers if her spanking is about to begin.
The next method that I use to increase the feelings of anticipation for a spanking is to cover the offense, tell her the punishment, and then “sentence” it for a particular time. There are a few different ways to accomplish this. The first is to tell her exactly when and where her spanking will occur. I am quite fond of a punishment being handled at the beginning of the next day, so a young lady might find herself at work with a recently spanked bottom. Or, if possible, trying to choose a time that is quite fitting for the punishment. Consider the young lady who went out with friends for drinks and then came home far later than she said and without informing me. It seems perfectly reasonable that the next time that she goes out, that she does so with a bruised bottom, so she will have a very real reminder for the duration of that outing to assure the same thing does not happen again.
Another variation that I have found to be very effective, especially when it comes to more severe punishments, is to tell her exactly what she has coming, and then tell her that we will take care of it later. “Later” is not defined in any way, which leaves her with the thought that it could occur at any time. This might be five minutes, five hours, or even better, five days later. What this does is really allow for reflection on exactly what she did wrong. A couple of days later, she is trying her best to go through her day as she normally would, but every few minutes the thought of the looming punishment will cross her mind. If I have promised her five minutes over my knee, for a hard bare bottom session with my heavy wooden hairbrush, there is really nothing that can completely remove that from her mind. This allows for her mind to frequently consider this event, while at the same time, considering why it is going to happen.
I have listened to and read many accounts of school corporal punishment in which both of these techniques are used. In some cases, all the paddlings that take place in a school, happen at the same time while class is not in session. This might mean a young lady has to report to the office at the end of the day, or to come to school early the next morning for her paddling. In the famous case of Amber Page, at Grand Prairie high school in Texas, she was not paddled the Friday that she was caught smoking, but told that she would indeed be paddled. The next Monday she wore four pairs of shorts to school, with overalls on top, hoping to have a well-padded bottom for her paddling. Her actual paddling did not take place until a full week later. For the young lady that tried to get to sleep at night knowing that she will be paddled the next morning, all the way to 17 year old Amber, who went to school each and every day for a full week not knowing if that would be the day, you would have to imagine that the sense of anticipation influenced the effectiveness of the punishment in general.
The final variation, one that I have written about in great detail many times before, is corner time. While many utilize corner time after a punishment, I am more likely to use it before. It plays on many of the things I have already described, but it tends to help her focus completely on her behavior and the punishment that is about to happen. When a punishment is sentenced for a different time or date, she will find moments throughout her day in which she is able to distract herself from what she knows will be happening in the future. But with corner time, especially if done right, you are removing all distractions from her mind, except the upcoming spanking and what she did to earn it. I try to place her in place in which there is no external stimuli to distract her from the task at hand. There will always be some degree of nudity, and often it will be a position that is difficult to maintain, which forces her to be focused. Something as simple as requiring her to hold a coin against the wall with her nose, or to kneel with her feet having to remain off the ground, keeps her completely on task and does not allow the mind to wander. This allows her to think about only one thing, the fact that her behavior, led her to a place, in which she not only earned a spanking, but deserves one.
When someone engages in a behavior, which previously has not only been agreed upon as unacceptable, but it has been agreed upon that will be result in a physical punishment, it is best to address it the moment it happens. But, by utilizing some of the techniques above, it is possible to allow anticipation to be an effective addition to any punishment.
All images in this post come from the very real punishment videos in the member’s area of Realspankings.com
So, it has been 11 years of on and off blogging and frankly I am out of things to say. Before I write a new blog post, I go back through the years and see if it is something I have already covered, and yes, I have covered just about everything. With the goal of blogging here more often, I am going to ignore anything I have previously posted, and just post what is on my mind. I may have posted this 5 days ago, five months ago, or five years ago, so if you have followed this blog for any length of time, I apologize if you have read something similar before. Today I thought I would explore what exactly I like regarding spanking in general and the typical themes that play out in my private spanking life.
For me, the absolute most important part of spanking is that it is real discipline for real offenses. Quite simply, I have never really engaged in “play” spanking. I have never in my personal life engaged in some sort of role play, where one or both (occasionally more) of us are assuming some sort of role. In addition, I have never attended a local play party. Yes, I have smacked a few butts by request at a Shadow Lane party, but that was more of having a few drinks in a social environment and someone asking to feel a particular implement. No one was assuming a role and it was by no means disciplinary. The most important part of spanking is that the person getting spanked actually deserves it. While I enjoy spanking on many levels, it is never really done for my benefit. It is very important to me that it is being done for someone else’s benefit.
[ Tuesday, October 27, 2015 ]
A public element added to spanking
The summer that I moved to Texas, just before I started the 7th grade, I watched a friend get spanked in a public campsite, in front of 4-5 other families. This was the very first spanking I had ever witnessed, and the public nature of the event really had an effect on me. I think that since that day, any spanking that is administered in a less than private manner, has always fascinated me. Let’s face it, in the grand scope of spankings, administered in the home, they tend to be a fairly private affair. This typically involves the person in trouble being sent to, or escorted to, a bedroom, or some other place that will allow some privacy. But in many homes throughout the world, this is just not how things take place.
In many homes, a spanking is as public as it needs to be. This may be as a result of the fact that mom is far too busy to take time out of her day, so a spanking simply occurs on the spot, wherever that may be, and regardless of who is present. I have interviewed many models in which this was indeed the case for them. The point was not really for the added embarrassment, it was purely for convenience and the fact that discipline needed to be handled right then and there. It might be in the family room while everyone is watching TV, or while dinner is being prepared and someone needs their bottom warmed with a wooden spoon at that very moment.
There are also many families in which corporal punishment is a group sort of event. This typically begins with some soft of “family meeting” in which various behaviors are discussed. This type of meeting might lead to one or more of the siblings being spanked, in front of each other. This has the benefit of accomplishing a few things. The first, is that regardless of someone’s age, getting a spanking is quite embarrassing. Now getting that same spanking in front of anyone else tends to heighten those feelings of embarrassment. It is one thing to be a teen girl getting her bottom torn up with a belt from dad in her room, but kicking and screaming like a little girl in front of her brothers and sisters is a far different thing. The girl who tries to act all grown up in front of her younger siblings shows a whole different side when the belt is being applied.
Besides the embarrassment factor, this also tends to serve as a warning to everyone else present, which is clearly the goal for many parents. It is one thing to be told that profanity is not allowed in the home, and a far different thing to watch your older sister get paddled right before your eyes for her choice of words. This leaves a long lasting impression on everyone, not just the person being spanked. These type of meetings are not isolated to only one person getting in trouble, as some family meetings result with a line of bottoms bent over waiting for their punishment. I will never forget an interview with Jasmine from BiSpankings.com in which she went into great detail about the various ways she was spanked growing up. In one of the interviews she discusses being in trouble with her younger brother, and they were both sent out to a scrap wood pile in their backyard to each pick a board to be used on them. They then went into the family room of the house, with both of them having their pants and undies dropped to their ankles, as dad spent the next 20 minutes alternating between a lecture and blistering their bottoms with scraps from their fence. They were not just paddled in front of each other, but being in such a central location in the house, pretty much everyone in the family got a glimpse as they passed through.
For those that get in trouble together, it is not all that uncommon in homes that are not shy in the way that corporal punishment is applied, for one to find themselves watching a sibling get spanked as they wait their turn. This also goes well beyond the embarrassment factor by adding anticipation into the mix. Yes, it might be hard for a young lady to be sent to her room and allow her imagination run wild while she considers what is about to happen to her poor bottom, but it is a completely different story to sit and watch a sibling get spanked, knowing that she will be next. Less is left to the imagination, however, seeing exactly what is about to happen to her own bottom can be just as bad. It is quite hard to convince herself that it will not be all that bad as she watches her “tough” brother break down as his bottom is worn out.
I think the very height of the embarrassment factor are those young ladies that find themselves getting spanked in front of friends. There are indeed those parents, that feel that regardless of the circumstances, a spanking will happen on the spot. Absolutely no consideration is given as to who is present to witness it. In the late 80’s, when I took a full-time job during a break from college, I was given a very detailed account from one of my co-workers. Many of you have been there, they say something spanking related, it peaks your interest, and you try and get more details without seeming as pervy as you actually are. Someone was discussing the behavior of their kiddos, and she said something to the effect of “I would have taken the paddle to my daughter’s ass for that one”. This was Texas, so people are not all that shy about discussions of spanking, so I had to dig a little deeper. On a smoke break (yes, I was a smoker back then), I simply asked “you use a paddle on your daughter”? I had met her family and knew her only daughter to be in the 9th grade, which is why I found it a little surprising at her age. Through some “I am not really all that interested, but go on” sort of comments, I found out two things. The daughter had been required to help her dad a few years prior, build the paddle in the garage, on the day that mom decided that a handspanking was not enough. But going along the lines of this post, she told me the last time her daughter had received the paddle, two nights prior, at a sleepover at their house. The girls were being a little loud, a little late in her daughter’s room, and mom went in to tell them to keep it down. Trying to impress her friends, the daughter made some sort of smart ass comment. Mom did not say anything, went and grabbed the paddle, came back, told her daughter to stand up and put her hands on the dresser, and then received three swats over her nighty. I asked “you paddled her in front of her friends” and her response was “you are God damned right I did, she knows better”.
I have also found that this fascination with the public aspect of spanking, lends itself to school corporal punishment. In the school setting, there is never really complete privacy when it comes to a school paddling. I have personally sat in a school office, while a paddling was taking place behind closed doors, and there was nothing at all private about it. I could hear every swat as if I was in the same room, and I could also hear the verbal reactions from the person being paddled. When that office door opened, and the recently paddled student came out of the room, every pair of eyes in the main office were focused directly on them. None of us actually witnessed the paddling, but it could not have been more public and the embarrassment was more than clear on the student’s face.
In the school setting it is quite common for students to get in trouble together, sometimes just a pair, often an entire group. Let’s be honest, stupid behavior is often encouraged by other students and it is amazing the trouble that a few students can talk each other into. One of my closest friends growing up, moved to a rural community while we were in high school. She was always a go to for me when it came to spanking stuff, as she was spanked the whole time I knew her, by her mom. I think she was on to my little kink, but was pretty liberal about sharing when I asked. She once described to me getting caught smoking in the little farm school that moved to, along with two other friends. The punishment was three “licks” with the paddle, parents called, and a three day suspension. She told me that they were called in one at a time to tell their story, then called in as a group at the end, as their punishment was detailed for them. They were then escorted to the room where “on campus suspension’ is held and asked to sit in the chairs outside the room. One at a time they were called into the room with the principal and a female secretary, where they each received their “licks” while grabbing their ankles. What she remembered most about the event was how hard it was to go last and see her friends each come out, trying to look tough, with tears in their eyes.
There are well documented, factual, detailed accounts and news items that discuss schools in which all the corporal punishment is taken care of at the end of the day, or sometimes even at the end of the week. It may be that the administrator that handles the disciplinary referrals is not the actual one that applies the paddlings (many schools seem to bring in a coach for this), it may just be a matter of timing or logistics, or as often is the case, an administrator that is the same sex of the student being paddled must be brought in. In some of these Southern states, in which the paddle is used liberally, this can lead to a pretty big line of people waiting to be paddled.
There is a well-publicized case from 2002 at Timpson high school in Texas in which the entire senior class was paddled on homecoming day (news item HERE). The students participated in a “school tradition” in which they have a sort of improvised homecoming parade that involves all of the seniors getting in cars and cruising through the parking lot, hanging out the windows, and burning rubber in the parking lot. They had been warned that it was not going to be tolerated that year, and when they did it anyway, the entire senior class, consisting of 16 boys and 15 girls were brought to the office that morning to be paddled. They all received three swats at the hands of the principal and a coach. It took more than an hour to paddle all of the students lasting well into second period. This was not a light and ornamental paddling, as some parents took their kids to be looked at by a doctor as a result of heavy bruising.
I can only imagine the overall effectiveness of this paddling, as 31 different students wait in a line, as they listen to one classmate after the other getting paddled before them. Yes, in a small town Texas high school, a paddling is not all the uncommon, but you would have to imagine that there were many waiting, and listening in that line, that had never been paddled at school before, or even spanked at all. The public nature of this event must have led to a few tears before they even found themselves bending over and presenting their bottom to be paddled. Knowing that a few young ladies left that office with a bottom bruised enough that their parents wanted a doctor to look at it, you can imagine the fear and apprehension of listening to such a paddling taking place, while waiting your turn.
I have always taken this fascination with the public aspect of spanking and tried to integrate in into the scenes that I film. Anytime we do a multiple girl shoot, you can count on all of them bending over and getting spanked together, but I also try and bring all of the elements that I just discussed into play. With every girl shoot I do, each girl will be spanked in a scene, in front of the three others, in which she is the only person being spanked. We have had a girl spanked while her friends wait to give her a ride, or the girl who is driven home by friends and is spanked on the spot in the driveway with a paddle that dad just built. We have done many variations of the “family meeting” in which one or all siblings are spanked in front of each other in the family room. And of course, I have done as many variations as you think of when it comes to school paddling. Having one girl waiting for her paddling, while listening to the other getting paddled, is pretty much a staple on out site. One of our most popular scenes filmed this year is a four girl paddling, in which we get to see the paddling of each girl take place, as well as the reaction of the other three waiting their turn.
I am a big fan of what is typically a very private affair tuned into a somewhat public event. While I do like to hear about true childhood accounts, as you know I do not feel that spanking is the best form of discipline for children. You can see any and all of the scenes I have described, in full HD at Realspankings.com, part of the RealspankingsPass family of sites.
[ Wednesday, October 14, 2015 ]
Punished to Tears 2015- Part 2
I am proud to announce our latest full movie release.
The second 2015 release in this popular series. This video is 1 hour and 16 minutes long, with 15 full length scenes. You will see 8 different young ladies, punished alone and together, until they are crying like little girls. This video features the use of belts, straps, wooden paddles, hairbrush, rulers, and the tawse, delivered in a manner intended to produce the desired results…a bruised bottom and tears.
The purpose of corporal punishment is to provide enough pain to a young lady’s bottom to teach her a very real and a very proper lesson. The best indicator that a lesson is learned is TEARS. It is not until she is crying like a little girl that we know that the job is done. In this video, you will corporal punishment administered as it was intended, leaving each and every girl crying. WARNING- this is very real corporal punishment, these are not fun and playful spankings.
Now Available at Spanking Library
[ Tuesday, September 15, 2015 ]
Behind the Scenes
A little peek behind the scenes from this morning’s shoot.
[ Tuesday, September 08, 2015 ]
Washing her mouth out with soap as a proper punishment
I find washing a young lady’s mouth out with soap to be a very effective punishment, especially if you know that on some level a spanking is something that she enjoys. As I am one to do my very best to make a punishment fit the crime, a mouth soaping is applicable in many situations, as a young lady’s mouth often gets her into trouble. But just because there is no physical application of pain, this does not mean a mouth soaping is a walk in the park. Just as with a spanking, I work very hard to make sure the punishment is very effective, and I spend the time to make sure it is severe and that a proper lesson is learned. I would never give someone a handspanking, over their clothing, which only lasts 30 seconds, as lessons are not learned this way. That is why when a mouth soaping is applied it cannot be as simple as her holding a bar of soap in for mouth for a given period of time. Let’s take a look at what I see to be the proper steps for making a mouth soaping a true punishment.
You have to be careful with your soap selection, and want to choose a bar of soap that is free of chemicals and perfumes. My go to bars, which I buy in bulk at Costco, are the Dove pure white bars. I prefer the largest bar that they sell, as it allows me better coverage of her mouth. I never give a mouth soaping with soft soap, as it does not provide the same experience as a bar of soap. Simply pumping a few squirts of soap in someone’s mouth is hardly a punishment at all. With a full size bar of soap I am able to provide a longer lasting and more memorable experience for the young lady whose mouth requires discipline.
The first step is to place her in front of a sink and get the water to the proper warm temperature. I prefer to do this in a bathroom, as opposed to the kitchen, as I want to administer her punishment while she can see herself in the mirror. This allows her to see the soaping take place, which I believe adds to the overall effectiveness, as she can see exactly what her behavior has produced. While I run the bar of soap under the water and begin to get it frothy, I require her to open her mouth and wait. This is very similar to someone presenting their bottom to be spanked. She has to stand there with her mouth open, as she watches me lather up the soap, leading to her anticipating exactly how bad this overall experience is going to be. Once I have gotten the soap to a state in which it is completely covered with bubbles it is time to begin her punishment.
On the first trip into her mouth, my goal is to cover as much area as possible. I am certainly not gentle, and I make sure that the bar covers everything from top to bottom and side to side. Once I have achieved good coverage, it is time to re-lather the bar. I scrub the bar hard under the warm water to achieve as much lather as possible. On the next trip into her mouth, the goal is to really work her tongue with the soap. This is obviously where the taste buds are and I want her to fully experience the bad taste of the soap in her mouth. I will require her to stick her tongue out to make sure that I can cover every single inch of it. I will once again do this until all of the lather has been transferred from the bar to her tongue.
Again, I go back to the running water and work the bar back up to a frothy mess. It really is important to continuously go back to the warm water as the goal is as much suds as possible, and as the bar heats up, it becomes easier. On the next trip into the naughty young lady’s mouth, I am basically going to brush her teeth with the bar of soap. While the previous trips were done with the goal of leavings as much suds as possible in her mouth, while using it on her teeth, my goal is to begin to leave small pieces of soap behind. I will have her close her mouth and smile, allowing me to work the fronts of her teeth. She will then be required to open her mouth wide and I will grind it on her molars, top and bottom, on both sides of her mouth. This is why a larger bar of soap is much better as it allows me to really grind it into her teeth, leaving as much of the bar behind as possible. From this point forward, each time I pull the bar from her mouth, I will pull up on it and scrape it across her front teeth. If done right, the bar should start to form little grooves as the soap is being left behind.
At this point, I will have achieved full coverage, but I am nowhere near being done. This is typically a good time to begin a conversation. She is able to limit the areas that the soap go in her mouth, especially the back of her mouth and throat, but by engaging in conversation, the soap tends to travel a little more. I will now ask her many questions and make sure that she is required to talk. This will also start the process of the soap running out her mouth and onto her chest. This allows her to see in the mirror exactly how ridiculous she looks, as a direct result of her behavior. Sometimes I will require her to hold the bar in her mouth why she answers my questions.
Now that I am sure that there is no area of her mouth that is untouched, and I am confident that bits and pieces of soap are trapped in her teeth, it is time to begin again. Remember, the goal is to change an undesirable behavior, so a few trips into her mouth with the soap is just not enough. The soap should be much more responsive to lathering at this point, and it is easier to get achieve even more suds. Once again, I am going to cover her entire mouth with the now extra sudsy bar. I will then re-lather and go to work on the tongue again. This time when I make her stick her tongue out, I am going to work the bottom and top of her tongue. The goal is not to just leave suds behind, but basically paint her entire tongue white.
With each new trip into her mouth I am going to be a little more aggressive with the soap. I will not be shy at all with it, and at some point I will make a little effort to spread it around the outside of her mouth as well. I want there to be a very visual indicator as to the trouble she is in, so the more soap she can see the better. Around the halfway point, I will make her hold the soap in her mouth for an extended period of time. Instead of making her hold it flat, I prefer to put in in her mouth sideways and make her hold it that way. This forces the mouth open wide and typically causes the soap to once again run from her mouth, down her chin, and onto her chest. While she holds the soap in her mouth she is able to watch, as she stands and drools the nasty froth down the entire front of her body.
Depending on the offense, I will make anywhere between six and twelve total trips into her mouth. The entire process of me actually applying the soap will typically last at least 10 minutes. Remember, this is not a spanking, so longevity and total coverage is the key to making it as memorable as possible. Once I have finally made the last trip into her mouth, she will once again be required to hold the bar in her mouth for an even longer period of time. For at least 10 minutes, she is required to stand there and look at herself in the mirror. Being that she will not want to swallow, for the duration of this period of time, the nasty froth will continue to run out of her mouth.
Once her corner time with the soap is complete, the punishment is in no way over. Just as with a hard spanking that leads to long term soreness, I want this punishment to last well beyond the actual application of the soap. This can be accomplished in a couple of different ways, depending on the severity of the offense. The more severe version is to allow her to spit into the sink as much as she needs to, to get as much soap as possible out of her mouth. Once that process is complete, she is to go about her normal day, but not allowed to rinse at all. This might create a little bit of a sour stomach, but sometimes this just needs to be part of the process to maximize learning. The other variation is to provide her with a small glass of water, and allow her to rinse, but only with the amount of water I provide. In both cases, there will absolutely be no brushing of her teeth until bedtime. I want there to be a considerable amount of residue in her mouth, and especially her teeth. This allows for additional learning for the remainder of her meals that day. Each and every time she chews, she will have an additional reminder to be on her best behavior as the soap will continue to present itself with each bite.
If this entire process is done right, it will indeed serve as a very good deterrent for future bad behavior. Unlike a spanking, there will be no pleasant glow to her bottom, leading to heightened sexual feelings. Instead, over the course of her day she will have a very bad taste to her mouth, with bits and pieces of soap constantly presenting themselves. There is nothing fun or sexy about a mouth soaping and it truly can be a very effective punishment if done properly and with the right amount of severity.
[ Monday, August 17, 2015 ]
Bike Seat discipline
Over this past weekend I discovered a new, and very effective, manner in which to increase the discomfort of a punishment spanking and I thought I would share. On Friday afternoon, a special young lady in my life acted in a manner that required an immediate and very intense punishment. This was for something that has been a constant source of problems for her, and something that we have dealt with on many occasions before. THIS was the day in which I had to punish her in a manner with the intention of extinguishing the behavior permanently. I try not to get too detailed when it comes to the private discipline in my life, but I will say that her bottom was completely worn out and my heavy wooden hairbrush, belt, and wooden paddle.
This punishment led to her bottom being as bruised and sore as she has ever experienced in her life and that is saying quite a bit for this young lady. As you would expect, while her entire bottom was properly punished, I spent a considerable amount of time on the “sit spot”, as I wanted this lesson to stay with her for several days and needed her attention focused on the issue every time she tried to sit. Being that this was a very real punishment, for extraordinary offenses, I contemplated following up the next morning with another session with my brush. I know how effective a punishment, on a recently bruised bottom can be, and I felt strongly that a single spanking was not going to be enough to do the trick.
On Saturday morning, while I was making my morning tea in the kitchen, I made her present her bottom to me for an inspection of my work. With her pj’s around her ankles, in the middle of my kitchen, I had her grab her ankles so I could see how much progress we had made. Now, I am someone who is quite used to seeing a bruised bottom, but I have to admit I was a little surprised as to the results. Her entire bottom showed the results of the belt, more so on the right cheek, but it was clear that I had done a good job, with visible bruises covering almost her entire bottom. With the intensity that I used the heavy wooden brush, I was really limited to the lowest part of her bottom. As the goal was as much long term soreness as possible, I was layering the swats with the brush on the exact same two spots on her bottom. It was clear at the time of the spanking that by only hitting these two spots that she went numb pretty quickly. At one point she almost completely gave up any amount of struggle, which is a clear indication that her endorphins were flying into action. I see those moments as opportunities to work toward the long term goal of maximum soreness and simply continued spanking those two spots knowing that this was an investment in her future good behavior. But I was quite surprised as to how very effective it turned out to be as the two spots on her lower butt cheeks were as bruised as I have ever seen the next morning. Not only were these two spots bruised, they were still very swollen and quite hard to the touch. As I ran my fingers over these two spots she winced and was clearly in a lot more pain than she had experienced the night before.
With the thought of taking her back over my knee for another session with the brush still on my mind, after seeing how completely sensitive and sore that she was, I decided to capitalize on her current soreness in a different manner than another spanking. So we started our morning with tea on my deck, which meant that she would start her day sitting on the hard wrought iron patio chairs. When she sat down, after having asked if she could stand instead, it became abundantly clear that she was experiencing a level of soreness that was more intense than she had ever felt before. She squirmed in her seat for the duration of our tea and I decided at that point, that for the purposes of making sure that this was a lesson that she would never forget, we would have an entire day based on providing painful sensations to her bruised and sore bottom. As I contemplated how to best achieve this, I was struck with an idea that could not be any more perfect for this lesson.
After completing our morning routine, I told her to go and change for a day in the woods. She came out of the bedroom in a cute pair of athletic shorts, her hiking shoes, and a tank top. I went and changed, and as I came out of the bedroom, and she saw that I was wearing my mountain biking shorts, you could see the panic begin to set in. I did not address the issue and instead went to the garage to begin putting our mountain bikes on the rack on my truck. I filled our water bottles and we headed out, still without her addressing what was clearly on her mind. On the drive to one of my favorite trails, we drove in silence, as I know she was contemplating exactly how this was going to go. Our bikes are light and fast, with very minimal padding on the seats, and there is no doubt that this was going to be an experience that she would never forget. We arrived at the trailhead and I unloaded the bikes from the truck. She still had a bit of a panicked look on her face, which was further increased as she watched me lock the rear suspension on her bike. I wanted her to feel each and every bump on this rocky trail, so rear suspension would not be required. Before we mounted our bikes and headed out, I told her that while standing for the uphill sections was obviously required as it gets steep in spots, that she would spend 100% of her time on the flats and downhill sections, sitting fully on her seat. I made her lead so I could make sure that she did not stand the whole time and then the punishment began.
The trail is a 12 mile loop, about 1/3 on a forest road with the rest being rough single track. While it is not a very technically difficult trail, it is as bumpy as it gets with rocks embedded into a large portion of the route. From the moment her bruised bottom touched the seat, I could tell that very real learning was taking place. Even with my full suspension, this was wearing my ass out a little, but for her it was as bad as the spanking the night before. A bike seat tends to put all of the pressure onto two very specific areas of one’s bottom, and those happen to be the exact spots that were as sore as they possibly could be for her at that moment. I could tell by her movements and body language, as she road ahead of me, that this was an intense struggle for her. I watched as she negotiated some of the rougher downhill sections, trying her best to stay seated, but not fully being able to do so, as the pain was just far too intense. I found that this was far better than simply spanking her sore bottom again that morning, as she now had 12 miles to fully reflect on the behavior that she engaged in that lead to her bottom feeling this way in the first place. As I watched her, more and more often, lift her bottom off the seat during the flats and downhill sections, I knew that this had to be addressed. After all, this was her punishment, it was well earned, and by standing when she should be sitting and fully embracing her discipline, she was diluting the overall effectiveness of the lesson.
When we reached what we have always called “break rock” which is a great spot with amazing views at the top of the hardest climb, we hopped off of our bikes for a much needed break. I made her sit on the rock, as she clearly wanted to stand at this point. We drank water and each sucked down a power gel and soaked in the views. Well, I soaked in the views while she suffered as she tried to find a way to sit on a boulder with a sore bottom. I told her that she was cheating on the downhill and flats, and clearly that had to be addressed. I gave her my multi-tool and told her to go into the woods and cut a switch, so we could take care of this problem on the spot. I was a surprised as she teared up a little, but took the tool and headed into the woods. Normally, I might start to feel a little bad for her in a situation such as this, but the offense we were dealing with warranted each and everything that I was doing. If I did not see this completely to the end, then it would be MY fault if this behavior ever occurred again. I was bound and determined to see this one through and make sure to get the desired results. A couple of minutes later she emerged from the woods with three different switches in her hand. I inspected all three, chose the best two, and told her to get to cleaning them. She spent the next several minutes pulling the various small branches and leaves off of them, and then cleaning up the sharp edges using the knife on the tool.
With two perfect switches, we marched 100 yards or so away from the trail, to get to work. Her shorts and panties were dropped, and with her feet together, she bent over and grabbed her ankles. I then spent the next few minutes properly striping her bottom and thighs until both switches were as worn out as her bottom. When the desired results were achieved, we headed back to the bikes and continued our ride. For the duration of the ride, and for even a portion of the remaining climbs, her bottom was firmly planted on the saddle. It did indeed take a little reminder, but she eventually went along with the program and fully embraced the punishment ride. There were some extra tears on a few spots on the ride, but they were well deserved.
Unfortunately for her, when the ride was over, the punishment was not. We headed to our favorite mountain watering hole, and as you would expect, my decision as to where we would sit was based fully on discomfort. I went with the tall wooden bar stools on the patio, which had no padding and were tall enough that her feet did not reach the ground. As we enjoyed an adult beverage, I made sure that her feet hung down, not allowing her to put them on the crossbars on the stool legs. This forced all of the weight of her upper body onto her sore bottom, and the lesson that was still being learned was very clear on her face. She was also very self-conscious about her recently striped legs, which still showed the thin welts from her switching. The fact that her legs were striped was not my concern, as this was simply a fact of life from a well-earned switching.
The rest of our day went pretty much the same way. I went out of my way to make each and every moment of the day something that would add additional discomfort to her poor bottom. Remember, part of being good disciplinarians is the willingness to go above and beyond to make a punishment memorable and effective. My entire purpose was to make sure that this behavior was never again to be repeated. We finished our evening with a Redbox DVD rental, on my super comfortable home theater seating, that is after I cut a piece of plywood to perfectly fit her seat.
[ Monday, July 20, 2015 ]
School paddling on security video